The Law of Attraction seems so simple, and it is, but we usually aren’t doing it right. The law, Attraction, is always flowing, bringing you what you are wanting, good and bad. For example, when someone isn’t aware of the LOA, or isn’t focused upon it, they are naturally attracting a 50/50 chance of good and bad coming their way. They could be doing well in their job, happy and experiencing abundance, and that joy continues that flow. Luckily, they’ve got that down by what experience has shown them, that their job is good, makes them happy and brings them money. So, by way of the law of attraction, that will continue, as long as they keep feeling that way. However, they could also have bad experiences in love and feel that dating is hard, and believe they will never find that right person.
Instead of feeling ill at other couple’s public displays of affection, they can be happy for them and be excited for it to be their turn soon.
Guess what is going to happen? They are going to have a great job, but a bad dating life. Their experiences as well as their feelings about dating will continue to attract more of the same. They are attracting what they don’t want. How can they change that? Simple. Ignore past experiences, no matter how bad. They do not have to be their reality. Starting now, they need to feel that dating will be fun, and the Universe will bring them the person they have been wanting. They need to daydream of their perfect person, what they would do to enjoy life together, how good it would feel. Instead of feeling ill at other couple’s public displays of affection, they can be happy for them and be excited for it to be their turn soon. If dating brings them someone that isn’t quite what they have been looking for, they can be thankful that Universe is showing you more of what you don’t want, so they can focus on what they do want.
Don’t keep telling the same story. Rewrite it.
I know so many people that keep telling the same story over and over, and expect it to change. It won’t change until they rewrite their own story. My husband has the experience that his truck breaks down and is unreliable. He is always waiting for something else to go wrong so he can say, yep, there it goes again, I need to take the truck in. I asked him to change his story. He said, it’s not me, it’s my truck! Aha. That’s where he is wrong. It is him believing in his experience enough to think it won’t change. He accepts it the way it is, then gets mad when it does!
We tried something new recently. I asked him to name his truck and start thinking of it as a reliable, trusty friend. He named it Rip, from a television show called Yellowstone, where the character is a trusted reliable cowboy. He also happens to be Kevin Costner’s right hand man, as well as pretty dang sexy, so I wasn’t complaining. I asked him to believe that his truck is like this character, and will not let him down. It hasn’t been that long, but so far so good! He has been traveling for work, driving 6 hours both ways, and his good old Rip has been going strong.
When you are feeling good, you will attract good things. When you are feeling bad, you will attract bad things. Law of Attraction kindergarten, kids. Practice feeling good, even if things seem bad. Don’t keep telling the same story, rewrite it. You are not a victim to the Universe who is out to get you and make you miserable. The universe is only bringing you what you are showing it you want. Show the universe you want happiness, love, abundance by feeling good about those things. Look for those things coming your way, because they will. Its called a Law for a reason.
I’m planning on writing a lot more on attraction, because it is why I am here, writing this blog. It is part of something big coming, because I am dreaming it, and I am allowing it to happen. It is part of my daily life and how I have what I want. I knew there was more, and I started feeling effing great about it.